One of the blogger friends that I follow recently blogged about how her sister talked her in to volunteering in a hospital when she was a girl. She was all for working an hour a day thinking she would be reading books to little kids. Instead, they put her in a geriatric hospital doing much more than reading little books. It was a cute story and you can read it on Jane's blog here. It brought to mind a time when I was a girl and my mom and I had visited someone in the hospital. I saw some girls my age dressed in these cute red and white striped pinafores and learned that they were volunteers in the hospital. I loved those little striped jumpers and thought it would be really cool to be a Candy Striper. A friend and I looked into it and we were told that with just a few training classes, we would be given a uniform and we could start volunteering. I remember being told that our job would be taking library books and magazines to patients, delivering flowers and cheering up the patients. Besides, it might be nice to be a nurse someday.
During the first training session, we learned how to make beds. I wondered why we were learning to make beds, but I did what I was told and I could fold those corners with the best of them - no fitted sheets back then. Next we learned about bed pans and I knew I was in trouble. Hey, no fair! Where were the magazines and the pretty flowers? Why was I not cheering up patients? Why was I not being told how to flit in and out of the hospital hallways looking cute and having fun like those other girls I saw? They must have changed the job description.
I lasted about six weeks on my first job of volunteering. I was never so glad in all my life to get rid of something as I was the day I turned in that ugly red and white uniform. And I had a whole new respect for nurses.
During the first training session, we learned how to make beds. I wondered why we were learning to make beds, but I did what I was told and I could fold those corners with the best of them - no fitted sheets back then. Next we learned about bed pans and I knew I was in trouble. Hey, no fair! Where were the magazines and the pretty flowers? Why was I not cheering up patients? Why was I not being told how to flit in and out of the hospital hallways looking cute and having fun like those other girls I saw? They must have changed the job description.
I lasted about six weeks on my first job of volunteering. I was never so glad in all my life to get rid of something as I was the day I turned in that ugly red and white uniform. And I had a whole new respect for nurses.
Oh, I have heard of the word "Candystriper". From your post, I remembered the meaning.
ReplyDeleteYes, the work must be no ideal, clean job. My father is in the old-people's home. And suffering from dementia. I cannot thank the staffs there enough for they care.
Love, xoxo Orchid.
Hee Hee! You drew the short straw with your little spell of volunteering, my friend. :( It would have been lovely to just go around with the magazines and flowers, wouldn't it?!
ReplyDeleteGlenda thank you for mentioning my post here and I love your story ... it's similair expectations to my own - and then the ghastly reality. As I said my sister still nurses - in fact she phoned me just now having read that post and we laughed about the whole experience!
ReplyDeleteOrchid, it's wonderful to have nice care for your father. In our country there are some good facilities, but there's also plenty of bad ones. Thisisme, I have a habit of drawing short straws - especially where volunteering is concerned. Jane, your post brought back all those memories and yes, I think they do sugarcoat the duties of those hospital volunteers. If they didn't, no-one would ever do it, would they? LOL
ReplyDeleteI was a candystriper with my best friend. We really liked it. We mainly delivered flowers and once my friend got to hold a newborn baby. They also gave us little vouchers to get free lunch from the cafeteria. Thank goodness, no beds had to be made.
ReplyDeleteTara, it wasn't bedmaking that were a problem - it was the bedpan duty. Can you imagine hospitals today allowing 14 / 15 year old's handling a bedpan? lol
ReplyDeleteOops, when I changed the wording on that last comment, I forgot to change the "were" to a "was".
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